NAMITA NEPAL
What do women look for in their quest to find the perfect match? One theory talks of how each woman has a set for messages programmed in her brain that describe her likes and dislikes. This programme includes her preferences in searching for a suitable mate. Details like body structure, complexion, voice, personality, financial security and family background are pre-programmed in her mind, and she falls for anybody who comes closest to her wish list.
The other theory talks of attraction of opposites. Gopika, a banker says “I got many proposals from prospective grooms, mostly professionals. But I was not interested because I needed someone who was different. When I met Mr. A, I knew that he was the guy for me. I fell headlong in love but deep down in my heart I worried that this relationship would not last. So, in spite of the fact I was truly in love with him, I gave up my relationship. My parents too would never have agreed to it. I am still looking.”
The other theory talks of attraction of opposites. Gopika, a banker says “I got many proposals from prospective grooms, mostly professionals. But I was not interested because I needed someone who was different. When I met Mr. A, I knew that he was the guy for me. I fell headlong in love but deep down in my heart I worried that this relationship would not last. So, in spite of the fact I was truly in love with him, I gave up my relationship. My parents too would never have agreed to it. I am still looking.”
The myth that generation next has broken is that love happens only once in a lifetime. Today’s generation harbours not guilt about getting involved with a string of persons before getting married to the right one. The point girls make is that this is not the age when they have to marry the first person they get involved with. Most importantly they want to be very sure of their partner before making their relationship legal or permanent.
From an evolutionary standpoint, women and men exist to procreate. For woman, an important reproductive strategy is being able to choose the right mate. According to this theory, women need a strong, dominating male to mate with and ensure strong offsprings. “Men do not attract women by chance. Rather, women act on cues to certain desirable characteristics. This is not because of what society tells the women, but because of what evolution tells them.”
Women find certain traits more desirable than others, because these traits enhance their survival. They are, therefore, attracted to certain behaviors that satisfy their genetically programmed mating instincts. This has a lot to do with estrogen, as opposed to testosterone. In the end, girls go for men who make them feel excited and loved. There’s no ifs and buts, the instincts are powerful.
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